Monday, February 25, 2008

It’s just a message board…

So, I hang out on the Weight Watchers message boards.  I have ever since I first started WW about 4 years ago.  I don’t post a lot, but I read a lot and post when I have something I think can help someone or if I have a question. 

Today, I’ve been trying to find some recipes of things I can cook for little man.  He is in daycare from about 7:15-5:30 M-F.  He gets breakfast at 8, lunch at 11, and then a light snack at 3.  Needles to say, he is starving by then time we get home around 6.  Since he’s so hungry, I typically go ahead and feed him one of those gerber graduate dinners whiel I cook.  It’s just what we do.  He’s one and he’s starving.  I want to get away from those packaged dinners and start cooking him something myself that would be better for him.  So, I go to my WW message boards.  I normally post on one particular board, but I posted my toddler food question on a moms board.  Well I got so much flack for feeding my child a separate meal.  Maybe one or two people actually answered my question, instead I got probably 20 or so posts of people critiquing my parenting and one poster calling me a short-order cook. 

So I go to my home board to vent.  I said no one answered my question, they critiqued my parenting, and I won’t go back there again.  I didn’t say anything ‘bad’ about the people, I just said exactly what happened.  Well then I get “it’s not nice to post bad about one board on another board” and “it’s just a message board” and “if you think that’s flaming you better not go far from here.”  Well, yes, it’s just a message board.  But I’m sorry, I can’t believe that I’m getting called names because I’m trying to feed my one year old son who is so hungry that he is screaming.  Now I am a good mother.  I am not perfect, and I do not know everything.  But, I love my child and am trying to do what is best for him which is all any mother can do.  And for someone who does not even know to call me names for trying to feed my child is just outright ridiculous.  But you know what, whatever.  Maybe one day my kid will be the dr that has to save that person’s life and they’ll be damn glad that I fed my kid when his was hungry instead of him getting angry and bitter b/c I made him wait. 

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Monday, February 18, 2008

those sweet little moments…

Saturday morning, little man woke up about 6:45. I got up with him and decided I let hubby sleep in a while since I know he goes to bed way later than I do.  Anyway, little man is being his busy-body self just playing and running around.  I put on the Disney Channel since there wasn’t anything on worth a hoot anyway.  After a little while, he just comes up to me and with outstretched arms going “uhhh, uhhh”, meaning he wanted to get up in the chair with me.  So I pick him up and he sits with me.  Well, we sat there for about 30 mins just chillin’ and watching Pooh on TV.  It was just so sweet.  He wasn’t wiggling or anything, just wanted to sit with mama.  I’ll have to think back and remember that moment when he’s a hormone-crazed teenager. 
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Friday, February 15, 2008

A nice valentine’s after all…

Hubby and I had a very nice romantic night last night.  It was the probably one of the most romantic times we’ve ever had together.  :)  And I’ll just leave it at that…..
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Thursday, February 14, 2008

goings on…

It’s Valentine’s day.  Tuesday was hubby’s birthday.  I’m broke, all money goings towards bills, so I have not gotten hubby anything for his birthday (but I made him a cake) or V-day (making him brownies tonight even though we still have b-day cake left).  I did not expect anything at all.  I didn’t want anything actually.  For Christmas, I got him an awesome present, a nice DVD-recorder.  But due to our car issues, we took it back and used the money for the bills.  So I still owe him a Christmas present plus a b-day and V-day present.  Yet I have no money with which to do this.  So what does he do, he still buys me a V-day present.  Ok, so it’s not like he went all out or anything, and it’s a present for both me and our little man.  But still….I haven’t gotten him anything.  He got us the little dog from the hallmark commercials (sooo cute!!)  DS loves it, as do I.  *sigh* I just hate things being a little one-sided right now.  :(

The little man has hand-foot-mouth right now.  We noticed all these bumps on his hand on Tues nite.  Then noticed some on his feet.  They look like fire-ant bites, but they were alllllll over his hands.  So, I mentioned it to the daycare director, b/c if there are fire-ants in the playground, they need to know.  But no other parents have mentioned it.  The director said there was something called hand-foot-mouth disease, but she couldn’t remember what the bumps looked like.  I call his dr.’s office and the nurse tells me that he does in fact have it.  Fortunately, he does not have the sores in his mouth yet (or if he does, they are not bothering him at all).  He does not have to stay out of daycare (thank goodness) unless he just feels too bad to go. 

That’s all the major stuff going on right now…..nothing new, nothing exciting…just life.  :)

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goings on…

It’s Valentine’s day.  Tuesday was hubby’s birthday.  I’m broke, all money goings towards bills, so I have not gotten hubby anything for his birthday (but I made him a cake) or V-day (making him brownies tonight even though we still have b-day cake left).  I did not expect anything at all.  I didn’t want anything actually.  For Christmas, I got him an awesome present, a nice DVD-recorder.  But due to our car issues, we took it back and used the money for the bills.  So I still owe him a Christmas present plus a b-day and V-day present.  Yet I have no money with which to do this.  So what does he do, he still buys me a V-day present.  Ok, so it’s not like he went all out or anything, and it’s a present for both me and our little man.  But still….I haven’t gotten him anything.  He got us the little dog from the hallmark commercials (sooo cute!!)  DS loves it, as do I.  *sigh* I just hate things being a little one-sided right now.  :(

The little man has hand-foot-mouth right now.  We noticed all these bumps on his hand on Tues nite.  Then noticed some on his feet.  They look like fire-ant bites, but they were alllllll over his hands.  So, I mentioned it to the daycare director, b/c if there are fire-ants in the playground, they need to know.  But no other parents have mentioned it.  The director said there was something called hand-foot-mouth disease, but she couldn’t remember what the bumps looked like.  I call his dr.’s office and the nurse tells me that he does in fact have it.  Fortunately, he does not have the sores in his mouth yet (or if he does, they are not bothering him at all).  He does not have to stay out of daycare (thank goodness) unless he just feels too bad to go. 

That’s all the major stuff going on right now…..nothing new, nothing exciting…just life.  :)

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