It’s just a message board…
Today, I’ve been trying to find some recipes of things I can cook for little man. He is in daycare from about 7:15-5:30 M-F. He gets breakfast at 8, lunch at 11, and then a light snack at 3. Needles to say, he is starving by then time we get home around 6. Since he’s so hungry, I typically go ahead and feed him one of those gerber graduate dinners whiel I cook. It’s just what we do. He’s one and he’s starving. I want to get away from those packaged dinners and start cooking him something myself that would be better for him. So, I go to my WW message boards. I normally post on one particular board, but I posted my toddler food question on a moms board. Well I got so much flack for feeding my child a separate meal. Maybe one or two people actually answered my question, instead I got probably 20 or so posts of people critiquing my parenting and one poster calling me a short-order cook.
So I go to my home board to vent. I said no one answered my question, they critiqued my parenting, and I won’t go back there again. I didn’t say anything ‘bad’ about the people, I just said exactly what happened. Well then I get “it’s not nice to post bad about one board on another board” and “it’s just a message board” and “if you think that’s flaming you better not go far from here.” Well, yes, it’s just a message board. But I’m sorry, I can’t believe that I’m getting called names because I’m trying to feed my one year old son who is so hungry that he is screaming. Now I am a good mother. I am not perfect, and I do not know everything. But, I love my child and am trying to do what is best for him which is all any mother can do. And for someone who does not even know to call me names for trying to feed my child is just outright ridiculous. But you know what, whatever. Maybe one day my kid will be the dr that has to save that person’s life and they’ll be damn glad that I fed my kid when his was hungry instead of him getting angry and bitter b/c I made him wait.